Showing posts with label patience. Show all posts
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Thursday, May 5, 2011

Fruit of the Spirit: Patience (inspirational short story)

It was obvious Callie didn't belong there. She sat with her ankles crossed and her handbag, which matched her navy flats, resting underneath her slender hands. Her fingers, nails neat and short with a French manicure, lazily looped and unlooped the strap as she waited. If she was nervous among this motley crew—obscene tattoos, studs protruding from unusual places—she didn't appear it.

They had all waited through a bond hearing that was delayed an hour-and-a-half. Now that the proceedings were over, they waited again for processing. Some had left, opting to return in a couple of hours at the guard's recommendation. Seeing no reason to drive home, just to turn around and come back, Callie parked herself in a green plastic chair that had been left in the sun too long.

The first call had come last night. "Irene's been arrested again, I don't know what to do."

Irene, a name which ironically meant peace, had been in and out of trouble since she was a teen. Callie's husband was youth pastor then, and the two of them had been embroiled in that family's drama ever since. When the call came, they slowly got to their knees and prayed again for the young woman and her family.

The second call came this morning. "The hearing is this afternoon and I can't get off work."

Callie's husband had a funeral to perform, so she volunteered to go alone. Now she found herself in the lobby of the county jail with the more seasoned side of humanity, waiting for what, she wasn't sure. Irene was sentenced to time served, so there was nothing financial to be done. But Callie didn't know what other aspects there were to 'processing' and the guards weren't very forthcoming. So she sat. And prayed. Time passed.

A woman in her mid-forties plopped down next to her. The matching patterns in her skirt and blouse were slightly off kilter, like she'd dressed in a hurry.

"Another two hours, do you believe it?"

"Another two hours," Callie said. "They said two hours almost two hours ago."

"Yeah, they never explain it right. It's an hour or two to get the paperwork from the courthouse and then another two or so for processing."

Callie's heart fell. "I've been here practically all day," she said. "Oh well, a little longer won't kill me."

"Yeah, you say that the first time. But once you hit round four, you hate every minute. I'm telling that boy it's the last time. No more, I'm done with him."

"Your son?"

"Yeah. You too?"

"Oh, no. One of the members of my husband's church, it's her daughter."

"You came down here and it's not your kid. What church does that?"

"Grace Fellowship on Bonneville."

The woman turned her attention to a magazine on the floor that belied its age with a picture of Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston cuddling. "It's worse than a doctor's office," she muttered, picking it up and leafing through it.

So Callie sat. And prayed. The lobby slowly filled with people she recognized from the hearing. Detainees trickled out, paperwork in hand, sour expressions on their faces. Irene drifted past. Callie got her attention as she hedged for the door.

"Did Mom send you?"

"She asked me to come. My car's outside."

"Whatever, my boyfriend's on the way."

"Can we talk a minute? I don't mind waiting with you."

"I have nothing to say to you," she said, planting a cigarette in her mouth and pushing through the door.

Callie sank back into her chair. "Why was I waiting? I could have been home hours ago."

Sunday morning, she waited with her husband praying for those who came forward. A woman in her mid-forties walked down the aisle with a boy in his early twenties, the two were crying and holding hands. When they came to Callie's husband for prayer, the boy fruitlessly patted at his mohawk in an attempt to make it more presentable. The woman sparked Callie’s interest. She'd seen her somewhere. Callie tugged at her memory until she it came to her. This was the woman from the jail now standing at the altar with the four time loser she'd threatened to cut off.

"The fruit of the spirit ... patience. I was waiting for them," Callie murmured to herself. Then out of the corner of her eye, she saw Irene's mother sidle up to the altar and get on her knees. Peace filled Callie as she knelt down beside her to pray, once more, for Irene.

Fruit of the Spirit: Patience (devotion)

You want to hear a group of Christians groan? Mention patience. It’s the one fruit that everyone needs, but no one actually wants. It’s even a joke. “Don’t ask God for patience because He’ll make you miserable.”

Why is this fruit such a burden? Why is this one an ongoing struggle for most people? I’ve been praying about it, and I think it’s because patience is the one fruit that requires the most sacrifice. Patience is all about the other person.

More than any other fruit, patience demands that we set aside our time, plans, and wants for the benefit of someone else. When you lose your patience and snap at the slow clerk in the grocery line, it’s because she’s wasting your time. When your kindergartener is telling you a story, you get impatient because you’re trying to read the paper. You want the doctor to answer all your questions and give you a quality assessment, but not anyone else because that might eat into your appointment. So you fume in the waiting room and give the receptionist a hard time if it’s taking too long.

Think about the last time you really lost your patience. Examine your motives in that incident. What were you unwilling to sacrifice? Was it your time? Your attention? Your favorite television show? When you feel yourself losing it, try to remember that God wants us to love others more than ourselves and deny your wants for the good of another.

“…Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.” (Phil 2:3,4)